- Sex & Intimacy - Sex Experts Explain How to Turn Down Sex With Your Partner Without Making Them Feel Rejected ## Sex Experts Explain How to Turn Down Sex With Your Partner Without Making Them Feel Rejected Because “not tonight” doesn’t have to become a whole relationship thing. Sometimes you’re so horny you can barely wait for your partner to take off their clothes before you climb them like a tree. Other times? Well, you’d rather walk over hot coals (hyperbolic) than get naked and roll around. Maybe you’re tired. Maybe you want to finish the show you’re watching. Maybe you just want to lie…